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As anyone currently braving the world of dating knows, finding true love is no easy feat.There likely aren’t a ton of people on this planet—let alone within your geography or social circles—whose moral compass, sense of humor, Netflix addictions, dietary restrictions, and idiosyncrasies sync up with yours closely enough to make you want to hitch your wagon to them for the long-haul (and the internet is making us all even picker).

I’ve since come to understand that actually, the “bi” implies attraction not to two genders, but to members of both one’s own and other genders, and that the bisexual umbrella includes a wide rainbow of labels connoting sexual fluidity. Given all that struggle and growth, my current situation might come as a surprise: I’m in a committed, long-term relationship with a cisgender man who identifies as straight—just like a startling majority of other bisexual women.None of my straight or gay friends have been propositioned for threesomes nearly as often as the bisexual ones, and somehow I doubt it's entirely thanks to our dashing good looks and natural charisma.At one point, I was so irritated that I put a "no threesomes" clause in my profile, and I still got threesome requests. In real life, when women are interested in other women, there's always at least one guy who thinks it's all a show put on for his benefit. But I'm not, so it would be super if people would stop fetishizing my sexual orientation. Once you've learned to play the game, Tinder really is pretty fun.At least that last one wasn't just a variation on "hello."Guys still win for weirdest choices of opening lines though.In fact, I'd say they win first, second, and third place, because I've gotten some doozies. If a dude puts in his profile that he's looking for friends, chances are he'd like those friends to be hot and sexually available.

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